Do I go with my heart or do I go with my mind?

I am so confused and need desperate help. I am a 23 yr old married woman to a man that is what any woman could ask for. Great personality, caring, dedicated, but the main problem that he has is that once we went from a relationship to marriage everything changed. He stopped caring for himself to be with me 24/7. I feel like Im choking and unable to do anything on my own other than work without him being there all of the time. He stopped dressing nice, began to gain weight, and worst of all stopped being confident and independent. Everything had to be under my decision. He could not make decisions on his own. I feel miserable getting home when all we do is argue about everything. Its like things go in one ear and out the other. I was rushed into this marriage by the persuasion of my parents. All they want is stability for me. Find a man that can give me what they never had which is understandable but my philosophy is also that you have to be able to love the person deeply as well. I know that love does not pay bills but I would rather be happy and broke than rich and miserable. I will go to school and finish my career. I want to make money on my own and not depend on anyone. Now my worry is that I am stuck in the middle and do not know what to do. I care for this guy believe me I do, but I am not in love with him. Never was... I feel awful and even though I have told him this he still does not accept it and continues to ignore my feelings just to have me in his life. I am beautiful and hes told me that he is lucky to be with me because typically a man like him never date or nevertheless marry a woman as beautiful as me. I am not all there with him. I want to make myself love him just as he loves me but I cant, and not him or my family can not understand any of this. They keep ignoring me and thinking about stability. Now my main dilemma is that I am beginning to have a crush on someone else. Someone that is wonderful inside and out as well. Every time we go to work outings people always say that we look cute together or how long have we been together...etc... and that makes me more attracted to him. I will not cheat, so physically nothing will happen. I do not know what to do!? I am so confused. My friends always tell me to follow my heart but that means for me to go and live with roommates and hurt someones feelings (husband).

Drunken idiot needin help?

I am of legal drinking age by the way. I came to school drunk and kissed my crush by suprise. I have to face her tomarrow what should i do

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Were these just drunken ramblings and slip ups from my friend? What are your thoughts?

I do have an answer for you and I hope you take this to heart and the most important, your thoughts and how you react to certain situations. Being drunk is no excuse for this so called friend of yours. First of all I would not trust her. You really do not know what exactly the relationship is between her and your ex-boyfriend. Also a true friend would not speak to in the way she has. Maybe she does have mixed feelings about her sexuality.In that case you want to stay away. Whether or not she was drunk I do believe people say things they really feel and do not have the guts to say it when they are sober. If this friendship was really worth it I would tell her what she said to you(although I think she knows) and just confront her. See what her reaction is. And for you I think you do know whats up. You sound like a nice person who may have a self-esteem issue.Try to change the group you have been hanging out with as you are moving way too fast for your age. Positive people have positive effect. I know this may sound out of reach for you but you could do something that will give you self-esteem and that is to volunteer in your area. This would be so good for you and you WILL meet dynamite people. Every town has a help-line and they have all the info.you would need.Or just google it. You could work with animals, children or the elderly. What ever catches your interest. I believe you can do it, and it is a lot of fun.I hope and pray you will follow my advice.This will surprise you as to how awesome you will feel.Forget about hanging out with people who bring you down.

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I badly need some direction or advice!!!!!! I don't know what to do :( Help?

Okay, so I was friends with this boy for about 3 years and we became pretty close to where I considered him to be one of my best guy friends. We were each others date to our senior prom and the night of prom we both were drunk and ended up hooking up and having sex that night. I wouldn't say I regretted it, but earlier in the night he confessed his love for me while we were drunk and that's all of what I remember. But I feel that just complicates things because I don't really feel that way towards him. I know it may sound screwed up to have drunken sex and then exclaim how I don't feel that way towards him and I also realize that saying "I was so drunk" is no excuse..but everything just sounds like a good idea when your drunk..if anyone can relate with this? :/ Well that morning wasn't good and we got into a pretty big argument. Since then, he's threatened his life numerous times saying how literally has no one else, no friends, his family treats him like **** and feels that I'm the only thing keeping him alive. One night we got into another huge argument and I told him I couldn't help that I don't feel the way he does towards me. Then after a lot of thought, I feel I was being ignorant for not just trying it out. So i decided to date him and see how things go. Well, almost a month into it, and I've noticed that literally all we do is fight and..have sex. It's getting to a point where I just cannot handle it anymore and I just don't want to be with him. But every time I try to get to saying that, he freaks out on me and threatens his life and then I have to talk him out of it again saying it'll work. I don't know what to do at this point because now I just feel stuck and my stupidity got me in this situation. I feel like I pretty much hold his life in my hands and that's a horrible feeling. I feel like if I break it off, then he's going to probably kill himself. and every time he says he's going to do it..it just pushes me even more away from him. I don't want to be with him..but at this point I feel that if I'm not he's going to do something bad and it'll be my fault. Any advice whatsoever? I already know I'm an idiot for sleeping with him in the first place so please don't just criticize me solely on that.

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