Can't seem to find the right person please help im sick of messing about in nightclubs?

You can't force yourself to meet the right girl for one thing. And another thing.. nightclubs probably don't house the classiest women, I'm just going out on a limb and saying that but hey, feel free to disagree. They different places and don't look for the right woman. Just try to find someone you relate to and have a good time with. Patience is key my friend.